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"If you will not fight for the right when you can easily win without bloodshed, if you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not so costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no chance of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves." --- Winston Churchill
Ashleigh Marie | Isaac Matthew
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Date: 2006-08-18 06:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-18 07:31 pm (UTC)*HUGS*
Date: 2006-08-18 07:46 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-18 08:43 pm (UTC)I just wanted to say that I am deeply saddened by your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
My deepest and sincerist condolences.
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Date: 2006-08-18 08:44 pm (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-18 09:25 pm (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-18 11:04 pm (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-18 11:21 pm (UTC)Regardless of your opinion of Jen... no one, NO ONE, has a right to say something like this to a mourning parent. You are sick
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Date: 2006-08-19 12:29 am (UTC)I hope she lies. I hope she's lying now, because no part of me wants to believe any of this is true. Unfortunately, I spent about two hours on the phone with her in the wee hours of the morning and no part of me can escape the truth of it, or the fact that she is indeed hurting far beyond the "attention they bring her".
We are more than the sum of our parts. People are not their actions. Saying this is her fault for continuing to bring children into the world is like saying women who are raped bring it on themselves, because they dress provocatively.
However it serves you (and it must, or you wouldn't do it), continue spewing your virtual vitriol right in Jen's face if you need to do it. 'Cause you know what? All she will do is honor your process and continue to speak against what has silenced most everyone else in her situation. Not the shrinking violet, Jen will merely draw strength from your ignorance and empower herself with the knowledge that there is still work to be done...not despite, but even on behalf of you.
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Date: 2006-08-19 01:10 am (UTC)You're seriously deluded. And totally disgusting.
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Date: 2006-08-19 03:53 am (UTC)My journal isn't the place for your commentary. That's what YOUR journal is for. You won't receive support here.
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Date: 2006-08-19 03:57 am (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-19 04:38 am (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-19 04:40 am (UTC)I am in pain. My baby boy was murdered. You have no idea how that makes me feel. I didn't ask for attention for it. It was on the news for over 12 hours before I even KNEW. It isn't my fault that my son was such a wonderful, special, happy person that other people feel the need to do something about the pain that his loss has brought to everyone, even you. They just chose to express their pain in a sane and normal fashion.
You are a horrible person. You really are. My son's loss was for myself, my friends, and my family to suffer through. My friends are the ones who garnered support from others on our behalf without even asking me in many cases, much less me asking them. How dare you violate the memory of my baby boy. You don't even know how you would handle something like this, so don't presume to tell me that my actions are somehow inappropriate. You have no clue, so you should do what's right and keep your mouth shut.
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Date: 2006-08-19 04:45 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-19 05:00 am (UTC)Whatev.
Having kids isn't criminal behavior. Murdering kids is criminal behavior.
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Date: 2006-08-19 06:03 am (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-19 06:10 am (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-19 06:11 am (UTC)You're just lazy.
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Date: 2006-08-19 06:17 am (UTC)First of all, I do know what a sociopath is, and I don't see how Jen falls into that caregory. Secondly, you're basing your judgement of her on LJ-Drama, drama that you yourself look bad in. What makes you think that you actually know her?
You are sick to attack someone who is mourning the death of her son.
Finally, I've seen you a in boob nazi flame wars. I can't imagine that you spent any less time online than Jen.
Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-19 06:22 am (UTC)Karma is a bitch, you'll get yours in the end.
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Date: 2006-08-19 06:39 am (UTC)Re: posted this in thde wrong place, have a repost
Date: 2006-08-19 06:42 am (UTC)I'm not even a real person any more. I uploaded myself last year.
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Date: 2006-08-19 06:56 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-19 07:04 am (UTC)This is appropriate how? This isn't about Jen it's about Isaac. Does that, like, sink in?
Oh wait. I have seen your kind before. You are wanting it to be about YOU!!
What's the clinical diagnosis for THAT?