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"If you will not fight for the right when you can easily win without bloodshed, if you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not so costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no chance of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves." --- Winston Churchill

Ashleigh Marie | Isaac Matthew





Date: 2007-02-12 08:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fightin-over-me.livejournal.com
hello Jennifer, my name is Annie, i was just browsing through some journals and came across your journal and website, I'm heartbroken and intriged ove ryour story, i would love if you added me! have a great day! <33 Annie

Date: 2007-02-15 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erica-america.livejournal.com
I know you and I have never been 'friends' and well, we don't really see eye to eye on things but I heard about Issac and read the story in the Detroit Free Press, my heart breaks for you. I couldn't imagine the horrors you've been through.
Even when i thought you were a massive bitch (to other people) I always thought you were hella-witty and very funny. I know there has been alot of drama surrounding you IRL and on LJ - but if you ever need someone else to listen, or another signature on a petition... I'll be the first in line.

I still can't believe all that you have gone through. I hope that Issacs death has actually shed some light on the terrible places these children are dropped off at.
You, among others, have made me want to get into social services to stop things like this. It breaks my heart to know people have an inkling on whats going on and don't do a damn thing to change or rectify it.
While I don't think all CPS calls are bad, I have had a few neighbors that needed to have their children taken (trust me, these are very viable reasons) the stories you have shared and stories I have read about foster homes scared me away from calling children services - where these children end up could be worse.
I'm sorry for the things you have gone through, and are still going through...

I have cried for your son, for your family, and for you.

Erica

::now you may snark the hell out of me, just like the good old day:: ;-)


Date: 2007-02-16 05:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] habibekindheart.livejournal.com
I tell ya, I'm no fun any more. No time for more of 'teh drama', particularly on LJ. Too much 'real life' BS to deal with.

Thank you for reaching out to me about Isaac. He was such a darling boy, and so many people have felt his loss.

Unfortunately, until the funding model to CPS is reversed, children will continue to be taken unnecessarily and be abused or worse in placements. That's what I've been working to educate people about for years now. The money all goes to taking kids away and there are almost no punishments for people who harm children while they are 'in care'...if the parents don't do it apparently it doesn't matter.

After all, Emma and Isaac were both abused for months before Isaac was murdered and no one would do a darn thing about it. We even reported it to multiple sources...nothing was done.

CPS is a train wreck. It's a shame we can't rely on CPS to protect children who need protecting...it really is.

P.S. Still a massive bitch ;) I've always tended to save it for those who needed it though...

Date: 2007-02-16 10:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tinebean.livejournal.com
Hi, I've been following your story since I heard about it last August... I try to check in periodically to see if there's anything new on the case. I was glad to see that the foster mother was finally charged in Isaac's death. About damn time. Are you any closer to getting your other younger children back? You and your family are in my prayers, and I hope you won't mind if I add you as a friend.

-Christine- mom of 3

Date: 2007-02-20 02:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alwaysamommy.livejournal.com
I am a friend of betty_bites and famatigia, and your site peaked my interest. I read your whole website and your story made my heart ache. I'd like to be added as a friend. :)

Date: 2007-02-27 03:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dreamweaver523.livejournal.com
Hi
have seen you around in a few communities, I have read your story and wow..just wow. I am so sorry. I hope you would add me, but understand if you don't/can't. Good luck no matter what.

Just wondering

Date: 2007-03-02 03:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] princessjemma.livejournal.com
How are you?? Ive been thinking of you since we talked last. Hope you are well. Have you found a MW yet? If you feel like it, comment back. I dont know if you want to but it would be nice to be added. I miss ya J.

Date: 2007-03-05 11:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] its-jemma.livejournal.com
Hi Jennifer.
My name is Jemma and I live in N.ireland. I came across your journal and website a couple of years ago and then landed on your journal again before christmas. I was so very sorry to read about your son. I can't imagine the extent of your heart break. Anyway, i found myself thinking about you today (yeah weird, i don't even know you, you have never heard of me =\ ) and wondering how your fight for your kids was going. I would love to be added to your journal. If not, i wish you all the best and will be hoping you get your happy ending.

Re: Just wondering

Date: 2007-03-09 09:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] habibekindheart.livejournal.com
I'm adding you. Nice to see you around :)

Date: 2007-03-17 07:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gen-here.livejournal.com
Hey Jen - I was stopping by your userinfo looking for a poem that (I thought) you used to have there (The "go away cobwebs" one). Anyway, I wanted you to know I was thinking of you so I thought I'd say hi.

Hi =)

Date: 2007-03-17 07:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] habibekindheart.livejournal.com
http://home.earthlink.net/~tnk/inspirational/babiesdontkeep.html

Babies don't keep :) That the one you're looking for?

I think of you, too. I hope you're doing well!

Date: 2007-03-17 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gen-here.livejournal.com
I've never read more than the last two lines... now I'm crying =) Thank you for that!

We're hanging in there. As a family, we're great... but there is a multitude of crap going on around us and we're chomping at the bit to get out.

Many blessings to you, hun *hug*

Date: 2007-03-17 09:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] habibekindheart.livejournal.com
No worries. I never had it on my userinfo far as I know, but I always loved the last lines :)

Glad to hear you're doing great...life can get crazy huh? You guys trying to move or what?

Date: 2007-03-17 10:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gen-here.livejournal.com
Trying might not be the best descriptor... but something like that. Since this is a public post, I really don't want to say more than that here =)

Date: 2007-03-18 02:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] habibekindheart.livejournal.com
I hear that. Well good luck with everything. *hugs*

Date: 2007-03-19 02:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] xcrimsonxfearx.livejournal.com
Hi, I found you through my best friend [livejournal.com profile] beyondinsanity and I was hoping to be friended. You seem really cool and all that.

Date: 2007-03-22 02:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lizziey.livejournal.com
Um. Even though you guys never ended up emailing me back, I was wondering if I could be added, since we have similar situations?

As an update for you, my kids are leaving "foster care" tomorrow, and entering "kinship care" which, from my experience with that, is MUCH easier to retrieve them from. So, I am pretty stoked.

I pray for you daily, Jenn, you and all your children. I feel that even when people are different religions (not sure if we are or not) that any prayer is good. *hugs*

Date: 2007-03-26 08:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bonezza.livejournal.com
While viewing your userinfo I noticed your a lactation consultant. I wanted to know how you got into that? I'm currently going to school to pursue a career in nursing with labor and delivery, but lactation consultant is something i've been hearing a lot about and wanted to know more about . . . you can also email me @ butterfly110201@aol.com

Date: 2007-03-28 12:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] volc0mchiick.livejournal.com
do you mind if add you?

Date: 2007-03-28 01:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jeski.livejournal.com
Hi :) I found you through [livejournal.com profile] pregnant. You sound like an awesome person and the kind of mother I want to be. I'd really like to read more of your journal. :)

Date: 2007-03-28 01:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mommy-jackson.livejournal.com
Hi! i saw you on the breastfeeding, or pregnant community (cant remember which one).
Im adding you, if thats ok! Add me back?

Date: 2007-03-28 09:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] geeki.livejournal.com
Just thought I'd drop a line since I added you.

Found you off of withtraffic's LJ.

Date: 2007-03-30 05:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tinebean.livejournal.com
I've been following your story through the Detroit new online. I am sending positive vibes to the universe that the Judge rules in your favor, and life can finally have some joy and normalacy for you. Good luck to you and your husband!

-C
http://sweetadelinekc.blogspot.com/

Date: 2007-04-05 07:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ergiwarrior.livejournal.com
heya, it's the artist formerly known as lee93, requesting renewed friendship on teh intarnets. <3

Date: 2007-04-05 10:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] habibekindheart.livejournal.com
welcome back :)
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