thru a multitude of links i found your lj (and your website). i was falsely accused by dhs in my state. only way i kept my kids was by making their grandparents legal guardians. then dhs (who never helped at all) sent me a lovely form letter saying my case was closed and thank you (to me) for cooperating with them.
HA! i never cooperated.

anyway, i'm so dreadfully sorry for all your loss. i just wanted to say i read, and i can't imagine what you went thru. i only had a fraction of your nightmare.

blessings.