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Sorry Jen!

[thirstfordreams.livejournal.com]

Hey Jennifer.. Don't know if you remember me.. my user name on here use to be xchocaholicx and you had helped me through a hard time when cps in Hawaii had taken my child away from me. I wanted to thank you for all your support and wanted to offer mine back to you. I am back in Michigan now and got the newspaper with the article about Isaac and I am so sorry.. I know my apologies won't bring him back but I am here if you need me. He was a beautiful baby just like all of your beautiful children and reading about him makes me really consider becoming a social worker.. but not the ones against the REAL parents.. but one who watches over the foster families in our fucked up system.. I really hope you are doing well and if you need to talk at all you can reach me on here or email me at redinhawaii06@excite.com
Best Wishes
-Nicole

Re: Sorry Jen!

[thirstfordreams.livejournal.com]

I also wanted to let you know that my son Toby is being officially adopted by the family he was with when we first started talking and he is in a really good home thankfully and still remains in Hawaii til 2008 when his family will be retiring from the Navy and moving to NY. I will be able to see him again then if I can't afford to fly back to Hawaii.. They agreed to let me stay in his life. I am thankful for that and thought you might like to hear that. On another note of hope I did give birth to another baby boy a year ago January 11th by my current fiance and after fighting the system for the first 10 months of his life I have sole legal and physical custody. They finally see me as a good parent and I could have fought for my other little boy but he was so happy where he was so in my heart I thought he was best off there.. so I hope this gives you hope for your future that not everything is going to end up bad.. I know you do handle everything with much grace but even the strongest of us lose hope and I never want you to lose hope. Just do what you gotta do and do it proudly!