Jennifer Copeland ([personal profile] habibekindheart) wrote2020-02-14 11:31 pm


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"If you will not fight for the right when you can easily win without bloodshed, if you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not so costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no chance of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves." --- Winston Churchill

Ashleigh Marie | Isaac Matthew

[identity profile] 2004-12-23 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
Hi, noticed I got dumped... Guess I'm not shocked, though you know I am curious about the specific reasons, and I think I can handle it, or I hope I can ;) If you don't feel up to telling me, feel free to leave me curious. I don't want drama of course- don't know what I would have done to attract any anyway, I'm more guessing I've become boring, which is true.

Either way, I've appreciated your input in my journal, and reading yours. I'll miss you, and I hope you get your kids back someday.

Thanks for putting up with me as long as you did. I can remove your IM stuff if you want, just let me know...

[identity profile] 2004-12-23 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
I dumped people who didn't reply to the post in which I gave people 48 hours to respond or they'd get axed off my FL.

Would you like back on, so you can respond? /smirk

[identity profile] 2004-12-28 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey,i wandered over to find that you got most of us good,and i figured since we have some of the same interests and are in some of the same communities,and i read your website (which made my heartbreak btw :0( ..) i'd add you..if that's ok :0)

[identity profile] 2005-01-21 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. I came from sum_vs_everyone to check out who you are.
I just finished reading your webpage, and am in tears. It almost doesn't seem real... its so horrible, that you wish no one would ever have to go through that.
Your strength is inspiring. But I only hope you never have to go through anything like that ever again.

[identity profile] 2005-02-01 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much for your kind words. It was a very dark period in our lives, but now I have my 2 children to see me through :)

[identity profile] 2005-02-02 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi. 8 kids, WOW!
I found you through a few common parenting communities. Mind if I add you?

[identity profile] 2005-02-13 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Read your story, as a result of a link from doublediva who is possibly my favorite LJ friend, so I tend to pay attention to her friends. I'd love to check out your journal:)

[identity profile] 2005-02-13 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
You're added :) Welcome to my LJ

[identity profile] 2005-02-15 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi, I just read your story and had to friend you. You are one tough cookie! (I, however, am not and bawled like a baby while glancing over at my baby every few moments while reading.)

So yeah, I've also "seen" you around some communities too! :)

[identity profile] 2005-02-15 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey :) I've seen you around too. Welcome to my LJ :)

[identity profile] 2005-02-23 09:49 am (UTC)(link)
.. I was just wondering. I stumbled upon your journal and it made me so sad. What happend to your children? :*-(

[identity profile] 2005-02-23 10:00 am (UTC)(link)
The link to our story is on the side. I'm in the middle of rewriting it and putting it on my domain, but in the meantime that's what I've got (for easy explanations).

6 of my children are gone. I'm not allowed to contact or see them. When they turn 18 I'm allowed to find them. It was a horrible injustice that happens far too often in this country.

[identity profile] 2005-02-23 10:53 am (UTC)(link)
I want to add you. I just finished reading your story on your website and your info. We do share some similar veiws on government, schooling, etc. and even though I wasn't going to add anyone else. I think I'll add you, because you seem to be very expressive and I'm the same way.

[identity profile] 2005-02-23 10:59 am (UTC)(link)
I just checked out your user info, we're eerily similar in some aspects :)


[identity profile] 2005-02-23 01:46 pm (UTC)(link)
hi. i saw you on nonuglybabies. i added you.
don't know what else to say. hope to see you on my friends list :)

[identity profile] 2005-02-24 10:46 am (UTC)(link)
I'd like to friend you, if you don't mind. I'm a friend of [ profile] heathermoore's and have seen you around on LJ.

I'm 18, Buddhist, and a lover of the Classics, Latin, and history in general; I'm married but not having kids until I'm done with school. I'm a fellow friends-only journaler (mild IRL harassment problems), but if there's anything else you'd like to know, just ask.

[identity profile] 2005-02-24 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm very much interested in reading what you have to say. If you would like to know more about me before deciding if you should friend me or not, please don't hesitate to ask.

[identity profile] 2005-02-24 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey :) Can I ask what made you interested in my journal?

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[identity profile] 2005-02-24 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I like them hehe...especially the first two ^_^

[identity profile] 2005-02-27 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
hi, my name is Havah.
I saw your comment to a post in a community, which I replied to.

I have a son, and would like to have a friend who has had experience raising on, (just in case dire need ever comes up)

Your writing style impressed me, and you seemed even more interesting once I went to your information page and checked you out.

I love the smell of Sandalwood too, and was impressed that you would think to write that down, and have a full "thing" on your veiws in there. I believe in making your own baby food, breastfeeding, extended bf'ing, cloth diapers, co-sleeping, instinctual parenting, had a midwife for my birth, though it was not at home. As a matter of fact, we agree on most things, and the things I do not know much about, (such as your religion) I am interested to hear what other people would say about it or see what I would learn if you where to talk about it.

I have added you to my friend list so you can see all my entries if you would like to check me out.

Thanks for you time, reading this long entry--

[identity profile] 2005-02-27 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
no worries on writing a novel. Goodness knows I do it! Welcome to my LJ. I look forward to getting to know you better! Check the links on the side for birth stories, and you might want to check out 'the past' as well, so you can keep up :)

[identity profile] 2005-03-07 09:21 am (UTC)(link)
I read your story, it made me cry. Mostly because a friend of mine went through the same thing, here in VA, only not to the extent that you did. She initially lost, many court fights later, regained custody and sued the county where it happened (and I am happy to say, she WON.

I've seen you in HR (a mutual community) and I'd like to add you as a friend. My journal is FO, so feel free to poke around there and add me back if you like.


[identity profile] 2005-03-07 09:54 am (UTC)(link)
welcome to my LJ :) I look forward to getting to know you better.
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[identity profile] 2005-03-07 06:26 pm (UTC)(link)

You should take your own advice, girly.

Your journal is insipid. I'm dumber for reading it. I hope you use condoms...children deserve intelligent parents.

Technically, a bastard is a male child born out of wedlock. I don't have any of those...

Regardless of the number of children I have, children in 3rd world countries will STILL be starving, and mine won't be.

Oh, you were born in 1987. That explains it. You're not even an adult yet...nowhere NEAR respectable.

I find it wildly ironic that you're one of FIFTEEN people who have 'unique liverjournal interests' listed as an interest. Not very unique. Your interests also leave much to be desired.

You're lame.

Run along, little girl. If I wanted to hear your pointless opinion, I'd take your foot out of your mouth.


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[identity profile] 2005-03-07 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
damn right! lol

You probably can't use vapid. It's overused or something. Try something less common, so she'll have to look it up!

[identity profile] 2005-03-20 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi! :D I found your journal through one of my favorite communities [ profile] thequestionclub. I read your info and you see pretty cool, and also, we both were born on May 6 which is nifty. So yeah, it looks like you have a bazillion people on your friends list already but would it be cool if I added you? <3 Jen

[identity profile] 2005-03-20 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Welcome to my LJ!

Another Jen

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[identity profile] 2005-03-20 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, as reading your user info, all the comments on here and being blinded by flashing tickers has made me late for getting the children to school, I think that's a good sign that I'd like your journal...

I think I found you from attachedparents, but I see you and I are both friends of taniwha_grrl and have the usual homebirth, militant bf, etc etc interests in common. Can I be added, please?

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[identity profile] 2005-03-21 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I noticed your icon (on boob_nazis) I think and was intrigued so I looked at your web site. WOW! I have also had a run in with CPS because of my ex-husband. When my daughter really needed them...they turned their back and supported her step-sister. Add me if you'd like!

[identity profile] 2005-03-25 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Hi! We've intersected in a few places. (attachedparents, boob_nazis, I think on one or another non-LJ forums too) and we have a number of mutual friends (agentr, ascendinginto, carrier, jbarbie23, sherina, the_mombat) in the crunchy mama set. I'm also a mom of 8 (6+2 fosters) with one on the way. I love your take on things and your attitude and I've friended you and hope that it can be made mutual.

[identity profile] 2005-03-25 09:33 am (UTC)(link)
friended. Welcome to my LJ :)

[identity profile] 2005-04-20 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
hi add me?

[identity profile] 2005-04-30 11:31 am (UTC)(link)
Hey random noter here, but i'd love to read you.. you have 6 kids, which is something i could do! :)

[identity profile] 2005-04-30 11:32 am (UTC)(link)
I have 8 kids :) Lemme check out your profile and all that jazz... :)

[identity profile] 2005-05-05 07:22 pm (UTC)(link)
hi, i found your journal by searching for people with alot of kids, i too and 28 and i have 5 add me?

[identity profile] 2005-05-05 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
hi add me? i was intrested in your story im very sorry for everythign youve gone through

[identity profile] 2005-05-05 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi there,

You don't know me, and on the face of it we don't have a ton in common, but you remind me of some of my best friends, and seem interesting, so... hi. I've added you.

[identity profile] 2005-05-05 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I realized belatedly that that wasn't much of an introduction... The two good friends you remind me of are [ profile] kgj and [ profile] calmchance both of whom are advocates of attachment parenting, cosleeping, breastfeeding, and more. I consider them my parenting mentors - while I am currently childless we are trying to conceive, and these are interests I have for how I want to raise my future children as well (including homeschooling, for which there seems to be few resources in Canada).

I'm also very into all types of crafing and such, and just thought we might have some interests and other things in harmony as well :)